After Dark Fight Club Welcome the strength of maleness and accept your true self. Fete the bold qualities that define you, such as bravery and resolve. Value the attributes that make you a unique person, like confidence and motivation. Admit that embracing masculinity does not mean disregarding other identities in your life; rather, it is about finding a balance between your male essence and your other roles and responsibilities. Embrace the challenges that come with being a man, and embrace the growth and personal development that arise from them.